Does How Do I Get Him Back Works?
Meeting a guy of your dreams is hard, but getting him back after you lose him is a much harder proposition. Unknown to many girls, the first things you do immediately after a breakup can go a long way in influencing your ex boyfriend’s decision whether to make up with you or breakup for good. What happens is that most girls start to panic unnecessarily and eventually do things that are utterly desperate and a big turn off.
About The Author
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In most breakup situations, girls usually start questioning what they did wrong and spend most of their time recollecting events of the last few days together searching for tell-tale signs or what you should have said or done. Then when there’s nothing they can find, they turn their attention to the guy and begin to assume that there must be something wrong with him, such as a drug problem, self-esteem issues, or that he could be gay.
The truth of the matter is, getting back with your boyfriend after a breakup majorly rests with how you carry yourself right after breaking up. This is pretty much what this guide is about.
Bob Grant is a celebrated relationship consultant nicknamed The Relationship Doctor. Bob has written extensively about relationships. Some of his works target men while others are written specifically for women. He has also been hosted on several radio and television shows such as Marriage and Family Today, Singles World Talk Show, and many more.
What Is "How Do I Get Him Back"?
Firstly, it’s obvious that this guide was written specifically for women as it addresses the issue of how to get back an ex boyfriend after a breakup. Undoubtedly, a lot of women that breakup with their partners set out to do all they can to get back with their partners, but unfortunately, they use the wrong approach.
According to Bob Grant, a relationship expert and author of this guide, many times, women that try to get back with their boyfriends, they do so with an approach that would be suitable for a guy trying to woo their woman back. However, what works for women doesn’t necessarily work for men. In fact, when it is used on men, it can have catastrophic results.
In 'How Do I Get Him Back' guide, Bob Grant gives women tips on how to approach this delicate thing from a man’s own perspective.
Normally, when you set out to get your ex boyfriend back, the first thing you should address before anything else is to determine whether you really want to get back in the first place. You have to understand that you went through a breakup with that person and it was for a reason, regardless of who was right and who was at fault. It’s good to first ponder the reason why your boyfriend broke up with you and whether wooing them back is worth the time and effort. Otherwise you might waste time trying to get back with someone who doesn’t need you.
Use the time you’re alone to explore the things that are likely to have driven you apart. If they are major (such as serious breach of trust through cheating), then it might be harder getting back.
If you think that he is worth fighting for, then consider being patient. Men don’t like being pressured and once you show any signs of desperation, your chances of getting back with him start to dwindle.
If you want the techniques in 'How Do I Get Him Back' guide to work for you, you’ve got to have patience. Without patience, even the best plan will not bring him back. This guide hinges on patience and sometimes, getting back your boyfriend may require you to be patient and wait for him to make the first move.
What You Will Find Inside The Guide
'How Do I Get Him Back' is simply going to open up your eyes to male psyche and how you can use it to make your relationship work. Learning how the male psyche operates in a relationship and being able to use it to your advantage is one of the most powerful weapons any woman can have. However, this doesn’t mean that you should become manipulative.
The "How Do I Get Him Back" guide comprises 102 pages of quality advice about how to get your ex boyfriend back.
It starts off with a whole eight pages dedicated to understanding a woman’s heart. Here you’ll basically get the low down on the things that women do in a relationship and after a breakup that simply drive men away. This is a section that needs great attention.
The next seven pages are dedicated to you; how to take care of yourself during the two months after a breakup. This is another vital section as it involves a lot of soul searching, building self-esteem, and exploring the benefits and possibilities of getting back together with your boyfriend.
Next are the three common myths that women usually attribute to the breakup. Once you learn the truth about these myths, your dating life will never be the same again.
The next section explains the three main reasons why men break up with their women. Again, there are some surprising facts in here that are sure to change your attitude when dating.
On page 50, the plan is finally introduced and the next 30 pages are simply breaking down execution of the plan. Read the "How Do I Get Him Back" guide (I highly recommend it), internalize it and then apply the techniques. It’s pretty simple and convenient to read. You can read it in one go or you can take it one step at a time.
You can trust that Bob knows exactly what he is talking about given his extensive experience dealing with relationships. So, if you’re a woman and you would want to get back with your boyfriend but not sure how, grab yourself a copy of Bob Grant’s 'How Do I Get Him Back' book.